What kind of approach do you take when it comes
to stress in your life.
It's important to consider how you handle stress,
especially if you have asthma. Excess stress, or
your perception of and reaction to stress, can
have a huge impact on your breathing...and even
cause asthma symptoms to manifest, just when you
need them the least!
Last week, I asked (somewhat in jest) whether we
are becoming too wimpy. Do we lack the toughness
our ancestors had. Do we succumb too quickly and
easily to the excess stress, or perceived stress,
that seems so much a part of modern life.
I agree that modern life comes with a lot more
complexity, including a faster rate of change and
a more intertwined social and economic fabric
across the globe.
Not to mention, people feel like they are working
harder and doing more, with fewer resources. And
this is no longer the exception. It has become the
standard in the corporate world.
Yes, increased complexity and demands can cause you
to feel out of control and even powerless when it
comes to certain areas of your life.
But I don't think it has to be that way.
For one thing, you can take a look at your perception
of these changes and demands in your life.
You can also consider how you respond to them.
When you take a step back, are the things that you
find most stressful really such a huge deal.
And even for the stuff that is or seems important,
are you reacting too negatively to it. Versus
seeing it as a game, and responding to the
challenge.
When it comes to what really matters in life, one
of the most helpful things you can do is to look
at the big picture.
First, take a step back. Literally. Give yourself
a little time and space to think about this, and
tap into your inner wisdom and intuition.
Take a minute or so to focus on your breathing.
Gradually lengthen the cycles of your breathing.
Calm down. Chill for a moment.
Notice how your feelings change, and how the built
up tension in your body begins to dissipate.
One of the side benefits to breathing consciously,
in this way, is that it forces you to "be in the
moment", at least for a few minutes or so.
You stop thinking about what happened in the past, and
you stop fretting about what may happen in the future,
or what you need to get done by x hour or date.
You simply are.
Now, introduce into this the "Big Picture". What is
the big picture of your life. What truly matters.
For a wonderful, but unfortunate, example of doing
this, consider the people in California who had
to flee from their homes because of those crazy
wildfires.
To a person, the people who were interviewed in
shelters, who did not know whether or not their homes
had survived the fires, expressed tremendous
gratitude that they and their families had made
it out without harm.
And they also expressed appreciation for the firefighters,
who valiantly battled the blazes.
Talk about focusing on the big picture. At that
moment, in the midst of their own personal and
family tragedy, the most important thing to them
was that they were OK. They were alive, they were
healthy. And they will rebuild.
Hopefully, you don't have, or won't have, such a
tragic event in your own life. But you can still
take the attitude of these families in California,
not just once in awhile, but every day.
An easy way to do this is to take a problem, stressor
or irritation you are currently grappling with, and
think about whether this will even register in your
brain or in your life a month from now...or a year
from now...or five years from now.
If you do this honestly and objectively, you'll
soon find that most of the stressors in your life
are things that you won't even remember or think
about a few months from now.
Let alone five years from now.
So erase these from your stress list. Promise
yourself that you will no longer stress about -
or at least put a limit on your stressing about -
these challenges.
This leaves you with a considerably smaller list
of things that, hopefully, are far more critical
to the things that matter most: your health,
your family and friends, your ability to make
a contribution, and your ability to achieve
satisfaction and happiness in your life.
The first step to doing this is to give yourself
the luxury of a moment and a few deep breaths.
Use your breathing to get yourself into "Big Picture"
mode often, even if it's only for a few minutes.
With time, you'll find the "Big Picture" you gets
a lot less stressed and irritated over the little
stuff...and gets a lot more of the important stuff
done, more easily and effortlessly than before.
You Can Do It!
Karen Van Ness
http://www.OvercomeAsthma.com
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