This often gets a bad name. People will go to
great effort to avoid it. It's considered no
fun, the party pooper of life.
What the heck am I talking about.
I'm talking about discipline.
More specifically, about self-discipline.
Sel-discipline gets a bad wrap. Most people
think of discipline as the hard part of life.
It's the stuff we don't feel like doing. It's
having to do things we don't want to do. It's
lacking in spontaneity, freedom and fun.
Yeah, I guess so. I mean, if self-discipline
seemed fun and attractive, you could probably
eliminate 95 percent of the motivational,
self-help and business books sitting on
the shelves in bookstores and libraries.
I won't discuss the virtues of self-discipline
today.I'll save that for another tip. I
think you're probably aware of what it can
do for you...even if you hate to admit it.
What I wanted to talk with you about today
is something I've discovered in my journeys.
Something I've experienced with amazing
consistency in all areas of my life.
And it's this: All disciplines affect each
other.
Each discipline that you develop, or have
developed and follow consistently, affects
your other disciplines.
And your disciplines drive your habits. And
your habit drive the actions you take and
the thoughts you think - even the emotions
you feel.
If one of your disciplines is a negative one,
it doesn't just affect that specific area
of your life. It affects all of the areas
of your life.
If you are doing well in your work, but you
are leading an undisciplined personal life,
sooner or later it will show up in your work.
If your personal life is going well,but your
work habits and discplines are going haywire,
pretty soon your home life won't be so great
either.
I've told the story before about my favorite
roommate from college, Deb, and how she and
I were not morning people. We had a hard time
getting up in time to make our first class
in the morning.
So Deb used to set the alarm clock for 15
minutes earlier than we had to wake up.
And she set it on the window sill, across
the room. So when it went off, she would
have to get up and walk all the way across
the room to turn it off.
We thought this was a surefire way to
get us up and at 'em. Unfortunately, Deb
had the remarkable ability to sleep walk
across the room, hit "cruise control"
on the alarm clock, and coast back into
bed.
And I had the remarkable ability to ignore
the alarm clock completely.
At first, we thought this was pretty funny.
So what if we missed some of our classes.
We'd make it up.
After awhile,though, we found out differently.
For example, since I could so easily justify
missing some classes, I found it easy to
start blowing off some of the work.
Which meant I had to pull all-nighters prior
to exams, or to get my papers completed on
time. As a result, the quality of my work
sometimes suffered.
I also found myself slacking in other areas.
I wasn't following the off-season training
plan my basketball coach had given me. So
I was getting out of shape.
Well, you get the picture.
Of course, once I began to get up in time -
with only a couple of bangs on the alarm clock -
things quickly began to fall into place.
This same thing still happens to me today.
I have the discipline of waking up early
in the morning, so I can do my breathing
and energy exercises first thing, as well
as get some reading or work done...before
the rest of the household gets moving.
These quiet, solitary moments are so important
to me. The exercises I do - such as the
exercises in the Secret Power of Dynamic
Energy Exercise Course, Volume II -
http://www.bestbreathingexercises.com/dynamic_energy2.html -
energize me, wake up my body and mind, and
help me focus on the day ahead.
I find I'm in a better mood and more productive
all day long, because I started the day on
my terms.
On the other hand, when I turn off the alarm
clock, or wait until the little one wakes
me up...I lose that precious hour of power.
And somehow, the rest of the day just
doesn't seem to go as smoothly. And I
don't seem to get as much done.
This is one seemingly minor - but important -
example of how one discipline can affect
all others.
One simple habit - like doing your exercises
first thing in the morning...or tackling the
toughest project early in the day, when you
are fresh...or making sure to spend some
daily quality time with your kids...these
simple things can make all the difference
in your world.
You Can Do It!
Karen Van Ness
http://www.BestBreathingExercises.com
P.S. The discipline of getting up a few
minutes earlier and greeting the day with
deep breathing and movement is an easy one
to develop. Because it feels good while
you're doing it...and it helps you do
good for the rest of the day. Learn more
about the powerful series of exercises I
teach you in the Secret Power of Dynamic
Energy Exercise Course, Volume II, at
http://www.bestbreathingexercises.com/dynamic_energy2.html
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